The importance of praying for the children
It’s favorable to pray for the children in addition to training them and being kind to them. One of the prayers which contains very beautiful concepts regarding this matter is the prayer no. 25 of al-Sahifa al-Sajjadiyya. Some of its verses are as the following:
“Oh, God! Do me a favor and save my children and improve them and give me their benefit.”
“Oh, God! Lengthen their lives and make them healthy and guide them towards the true religion and good character.”
“Oh, God! Make them pious and insightful and loving and well disposed towards Your friends, and malicious and virulent towards Your enemies. ”
“Oh, God! Make my name everlasting through them and make them my helper in [fulfilling] the wishes, make them affectionate so that they be loving towards me and obedient to me, not disobedient and disrespectful.”
To be adorned at home
A person who is willing to help Imam Mahdi (PBUH), should take all the words of Ahl al-Bayt as the guidelines for his life. One of the most important recommendations of Ahl al-Bayt to the Shias is to be adorned and beautiful at home and in the presence of the spouse.
Contrariwise, most of the people pay more attention to their beauty outside their houses and do not care about their appearance at home.
One of the most important recommendations of Imam Kadhim (PBUH) to the Shias is that he says: “Man’s adornment for his wife is one of the factors of woman’s chastity.”
(The precious book of “Makarem al-Akhlaq”, p. 97)
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